We have all been there when we took the easier route out of a situation cause it was just easy, right? Now, I am not here to tell you to take the tougher road, if given the choice I personally would always take the easy way out. This is when i realize what if i don’t give myself a choice. What if the only option I am left with requires hard work, determination and courage. Will i still choose it?
My dad always tell me “whatever you do, whichever direction you go make sure that you are on the top position and if you are not there then you are doing it wrong, work so hard that you reach there”. According to him second place is never an option, nobody remembers who came second. People always remember who came first. You have got to be the best in whatever you do. As Dhirubhai Ambani once said ” If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to help them build theirs.“
In this rat race we call life, we as children have ambitions and dreams high enough to touch the sky. As we grow up we see the reality of stuffs and most often give up on our dreams and accept the norms of life. We just give up and accept what we get thinking this is all we deserve. In the book Perks of Being a Wallflower, Stephen Chbosky says that “We accept the love we think we deserve.” Its true, not only love, we accept the rules, the stereotypes and that too without questioning and sometimes even without thinking. Its easier to follow them instead of changing them, right?
I want to do things a bit differently, something unique. Yes, i always try to be unique, sometimes i do succeed and sometimes I don’t. That’s, okay. Its the effort you put in that matters my friend, make sure that you don’t regret the chances you didn’t take. Go do what you are made to do, whatever it might be, if it makes you happy then you are doing it right. 😀 Dream big you little thing, it’s your year and as i always say make this year all about you. For once be selfish shamelessly.
Thank you so much for reading, do comment down below and tell me what do you want to change about yourself this year, however small the change is remember the only constant thing in life is change 🙂
Thank you and until net time 😀