Things Teenagers Need To Hear These Days

Hey munchkins,

Before we begin I would like to say that I appreciate you reading this. So this idea struck  me at midnight (Yea, cinderella and I do have one thing in common, we have great ideas at midnight). There a few things I would appreciate hearing. But it’s not said aloud usually. So I was like let’s write a post about it. I am sure there are many people out there like me, who would appreciate this. Without further ado, let’s get on with the list –

  1. It’s okay if you don’t know what you want to do with your life yet if you keep trying new things its fine. Even if you’re 85 and still have no clue it’s okay.
  2. Say sorry, only if you are actually apologetic. Never apologize for being the person you are. Never put sorry as a prefix or a suffix in a sentence when you describe yourself. “Sorry, I am weird” – is wrong. Be yourself unapologetically (I still need to learn this).
  3. You can like both boys and girls or either or none. Don’t stress over it.
  4. Be kind but never let people walk over you. Don’t become a sponge that absorbs people’s sadness and miseries. Trust me, I have been there and it is never fun.
  5. Love yourself first. Self-love is the most important thing. You need to learn to love yourself first and then someone else.
  6. This is possibly the best advice someone has given to me. In life, there is no right or wrong way to do things. There are countless possibilities and infinite options all you have to do is look.
  7. Make mistakes. Yes, I am aware as to how absurd that sounds. Make plenty of different kinds of mistakes. The more mistakes you make the more experience you get. And you’re young, so make mistakes and it would become a life lesson.
  8. Do you want to do something different? START. I can’t stress this enough, start. Take the first step and things will fall into place. The first step is hard but the most important. So do it without worrying about the consequences.
  9. You’re not alone. And this one I can promise you. You’re not alone.
  10. Finally, it does get better. I am not sure but I have spoken to people and they all seem to agree. So I am hoping it does get better. And till then I will keep trying.

I have lots of things to add to the list. So if you like this tell me and I will make a part 2. And hey,  hope you’re having an amazing day and if not I hope you make it amazing.


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23 Comment

  1. […] talking to you and reading your posts (which are wonderful, btw). I most particularly liked your Things Teenagers Need To Hear These Days post because I feel it rings so true in this day and age. And I’ve gotta admit, sometimes, I […]

  2. That was amazing write and yes you can start 2. I’d love to hear it. You could be a counselor! This applies to everybody even me and I’m 54

    1. Tanya says: Reply

      Thank you so much. And I am glad it’s for everybody. I can’t speak for everybody tho cause I am a teenager myself. But I am glad you liked this.

  3. What a post!! You nailed it….hope to see part 2 soon

    1. Tanya says: Reply

      Thank you and definitely. ☺️

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